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How to Seduce A Man

There are many things women can do to seduce a man. The first thing she can do is put on some attractive perfume. Popular areas to apply perfume would be the neck, arms, chest and legs. This will arose a man’s olfactory senses; it will get you noticed quickly. Next pick out something beautiful to wear; this could be a tight fitting sweater, or a short black mini dress. Wearing these items will catch a man’s attention. Make certain you’re makeup is applied correctly. Makeup can accentuate your finest features, such as your eyes or cheekbones. Then exchange some playful banter. Discuss how gorgeous you think he is. Tell him why you think he’s the most wonderful man in the world, and how you cannot wait to see him without any clothes on. Then bring him back to your place, and tell him that you’ll want to change into something more relaxing. Then leave the room, and put on some lingerie. Sexy corsets might be the best choice. Wearing a sexy corset with black stockings will definitely get your man in the mood for some late night fun.

The Young Victoria

“I heard a story on the radio this morning about the young Queen Victoria. They were talking about corsets. The actress who was playing the role was joking that to be an English actress, one must wear a corset in the movies at least one. She claimed to be on her third movie with corsets involved and was looking forward to wearing sweatpants soon and giving her ribs a break. When you think about it, imagine having to lace up like that every day, we who have made a fashion statement out of being comfortable. The American woman barely wears control top panty hose, much less anything truly confining. But they were beautiful, those Victorian fashions. I can just picture those great skirts and fabrics and the expanse of shoulders and bust. We’d all like to sweep into a room looking that magnificent at least once, wouldn’t we? I’d take the swashbuckling cavalier too.

In the quest for the perfect “hourglass shape” women of the past often turned to the simplest solution, the corset. Imagine, no dieting, no exercise, no hunger, but an instant flat tummy! Of course, our modern sensibilities of “instant results” can easily understand the appeal of this 10 second tummy-tuck, but in reality the corset was yet another adherent to the “no pain, no gain” principle. Often made of uncomfortable materials (bone, metal, wood, and eventually plastics), the corset was designed to literally squeeze a woman into shape at any cost.

Though their efficacy cannot be denied, the pain that a woman endured to contort her body in this way is not hard to imagine. Anyone who has ever worn a too-tight pair of jeans knows the feeling of a waistband cutting into their hips, one merely needs to extend this principle a bit further up the body and they can begin to sympathize. Even though this brand of vanity was clearly torturous, one can clearly see the links between the tummy tuck of yesteryear and our own obsessions with appearance today. The “quick fix” approach to anything never promised to be painless, and the corset was no exception!

I know this sounds cynical, but I have found that the best way to make peace with my husband after a fight is to beg his forgiveness while wearing something sexy. Maybe it is just his personal taste, or maybe it is the way I look in it, or maybe it is universal for a man’s brain to turn off when he sees his wife doing the old fashioned seduction gimmick! Last month it was bill-paying time and me and the hubby got into a huge argument, and I tried this trick. Now, you may have nothing in your closet which fits the bill, as it will take some quite strong stuff to get the desired effect. This was my situation also, but it is an excuse to do a bit of shopping! It is perhaps ironic that a new strapless corset appeared as a line item on our credit card statement the following month, but he didn’t complain… for once.I know this sounds cynical, but I have found that the best way to get over a fight is wearing something sexy. After all, it is what all men loves – seeing their woman in their sexiest clothes.